Friday, December 10, 2010

Floored...

We officially have ONE HUNDRED contributing authors...I am simply humbled by your outpouring of support for this cause!! Thank you to each and every one of you who have signed up, tweeted & re-tweeted, blogged and done countless other things to promote FADV!!!

List of contributing AWESOMENESS...I mean Authors....

If you know of anyone else that would like to sign up please pass the info along...I am placing no limits on how late you can sign up....as long as you have your submission in by January 21, 2011...

Tell them to sign up here!

Thank you just isn't enough but it will have to suffice!

xx,
Blair

Monday, December 6, 2010

Unafraid

Domestic violence is one of those things that some people look at and say "I would never let myself get involved in a situation like that." Especially if you have seen another loved one involved in an abusive relationship. These types of situations can catch you by surprise. You think you have found the perfect mate. Miracle1901's personal story is a perfect example of that. It is also a perfect example of how, no matter how bad it gets, you can always find a way out.

"I watched my mother get beaten within an inch of her life by my step father. The same man who told me he would kill her if i told anyone what he was doing to me...i was seven years old. I believed him for 3 years he did things to me that i wont go into detail about. I finally told her what was happening. She left him and after a week of hiding in a hotel from him he was caught and sent to jail. He killed himself before he had to go to trial.
 
I told myself I would never let a man hit me. I would would be able to see it coming because I knew what to look for. I always told myself that as I much as I love my mother I would never put myself in a situation like that."
 
Read more of Miracle1901's story on the Personal Stories page.

Saturday, December 4, 2010

Strong

Domestic violence does not only occur between a boyfriend, husband or significant other. Parents can also inflict domestic violence. Mrowemoon was brave enough to share her story with me about the abuse that her father inflicted on her mother and the ensuing effect that it had on her. Fortunately her mother was also very courageous and was able to escape the violence she was a victim of.


"My story is not one of being a victim of domestic violence in the physical sense but I am an emotional victim.  My father physically and mentally abused my mother for many years.  They were married for just shy of 10 years when my mother finally found the courage to divorce my father.  He actually made it pretty easy as he found another woman to victimize.  I was exactly 10 years old when they split (apparently I was born just before they were married).  My father was an alcoholic.  When he drank, the beast came out.  When he was sober, he was playful, loving and attentive father.  My father's anger was alway directed at my mother.  Thankfully he never laid a hand on me nor my younger brother."

Read more of Mrowemoon's story over on the Personal Stories page.